Less stress and more sex! Check out our solution to the Christmas chaos! 🎁🔥

Christmas movies tell us that the holidays are supposed to be about joy, love, and togetherness. But in reality, stress, high expectations, and busy schedules can easily lead to many couples getting into arguments 😓 Luckily, we have a hot and sexy solution that can turn up the love level and cool down the stress - so just read on for some spicy tips and secret tricks 🔥❤️

By Renate LundeDec 12, 2024

Many couples actually experience more conflict during the Christmas season. This time of year brings a mix of joy, busyness, and stress that can challenge even the happiest relationships 👩‍❤️‍👨 On the one hand, the holidays are supposed to be a time for celebration and togetherness, but they also bring with them responsibilities and expectations that can be demanding to manage. Some of the challenges may be easy to solve, but when you have a lot on your mind at the same time – and are trying to live up to the image of the “perfect” Christmas that the commercials portray – it can be much more difficult than it seems.
Fortunately, there is a lot of good advice to be found in podcasts and articles, but if you don't have time to check out all of this advice, you'll get some great tips from the garden here today, and the self-proclaimed Dr. Love! 💗 That's me, hehe 😂

I'm here with some neat, ready-made and possibly very easy solutions that will probably make life more delicious, more fun and really sexy! 😉

1. Communicate openly and often with your partner! 👩‍❤️‍👨

It's not always easy to know what to say when things are tense, but a smart thing to say is always: "There's so much stress and chaos with this Christmas. Can't we just take a little time-out, 15 minutes for ourselves? Oh, and I bought Sensuell ! Hint hint!" ❤️‍🔥

How to stay warm in the cold weather? SENSUAL! ❤️‍🔥

I can almost guarantee that this will work to get stress out of your body, and have fun at the same time 😉🔥 However, it is clear that a few rounds of Sensuell cannot solve absolutely all problems and challenges, and then it can help to practice the art of communicating kindly on a regular basis ☺️
❤️ Throughout the holiday season, check in with each other regularly. (e.g. "Where is Sensuell ?") 🙏
❤️ Ask how your partner is doing, and share your own thoughts honestly but kindly. Good communication is the best tool to avoid misunderstandings and resolve challenges. (“I think everything is so incredibly delicious with Sensuell, dear, how is it for you?”) 😌
❤️ When conflicts arise, focus on expressing your feelings with “I” statements instead of blaming the other person. Instead of saying, “You’re not helping,” try, “I feel overwhelmed and could use a little extra help.” This approach will likely make your partner less defensive, and it will be easier for you to find a solution together. This is not easy, I notice that all the time in my own home. But, practice practice practice, and Sensual, Sensual, Sensual 😜❤️

Yes, it can never be enough Sensual!

Two other pieces of advice from someone like Dr. Love 💓

2. Set aside time for just the two of you this Christmas (or just you and your significant other if you don't have a partner) 👩‍❤️‍👨
In the midst of the chaos of Christmas preparations, it's easy to lose focus on each other. Prioritize spending quality time together, even if it's just for an hour or two (or fifteen minutes with Sensual ), so that you can feel more connected to each other. Plan a quiet date night 🌃 (remember, Sensual is waiting at the end of the date ❤️‍🔥), take a walk to look at the starry sky and Christmas lights, or enjoy a quiet evening at home with your favorite Christmas movie, or put on a Christmas movie for the kids and sneak away 😉😘 Or how about giving your partner a magical body massage in a warm room, using the smooth Body Balms on your body , and who knows, maybe a Sensual ending awaits? ❤️❤️ This mindful connection between you can remind you why you're such a great team and help you handle the holiday stress together 🥰

3. Be flexible and let go of perfection 👌
Things don't always go as planned, and that's okay ✌️ Maybe the dog runs off with the Christmas candy cane from the decorated dinner table, maybe the gift doesn't arrive on time, or the family gathering becomes a chaotic mix of conflicting personalities and different political opinions. Instead of letting these little obstacles ruin your mood, try to laugh it off and look at the big picture 🤩 When you stop worrying about whether everything looks perfect, you can enjoy the small, imperfect moments that make Christmas special. It can be incredibly liberating! Another liberating thing is having a Sensual jar ready in the bathroom, in the bedroom and possibly the kitchen for those who are truly liberated during Christmas 😅🔥 In any case, remind yourself and your partner that it's okay if everything isn't perfect - the most important thing is that you get time together. And then it's a good idea to have Sensuell on both bedside tables! ❤️‍🔥

A gift for your loved one that is sure to be a hit, and one that you will enjoy too 😉

Everything here is far from perfect, in both ways. But, one thing that is always nice in all the hustle and bustle is to stop for a moment and take in some wonderful scents. Open the jar of Sensual , stick your nose in and inhale the magical scents of cardamom and ylang ylang 💗

I always make tea from cardamom ☕️ I have it in my bag, but don't forget it for eroticism and sensuality! 💓 Cardamom is an exotic spice from the lush forests of India, and has been essential in many traditional medicines, including for digestive and respiratory ailments. In the delicious Sensuell it has found its place because cardamom helps stimulate the senses and increase our desire 😍 The warming and subtle aroma has emphasized passion for hundreds of years in Asia and the Middle East in particular 🔥And yes, cardamom is in Sensuell because this super spice works as a powerful aphrodisiac, and it increases blood flow to the genitals in both men and women 🤩

The volatile and slightly naughty oil of cardamom can be very attractive. It is probably one of the reasons why cardamom is often found in men's perfumes, where it lurks in the background and plays with other scents and helps to increase the sensuality of the scent. For example, check out the amazing Spicy body scrub which also has cardamom in it! Quite seductive! ❤️

Sensual in a bed of cardamom 🤩

Ylang ylang is also a particularly aphrodisiac plant that has a central place in Sensuell. The unique and powerful scent of Ylang ylang is dreamy and romantic, with floral notes nuanced by creamy and powdery tones of vanilla cream, seductive jasmine, banana, light and bitter neroli, as well as sensual and sweet honey 🐝

There are many exciting reasons why Ylang ylang is in the sexy Sensuell, and if there is still anyone who doesn't believe that Sensuell can save Christmas, check here:

❤️ A study published in the Journal of Exercise Rehabilitation found that inhaling ylang ylang oil could reduce blood pressure and increase relaxation and calmness in participants. Because of this, the oil creates an atmosphere that is conducive to intimacy and sensuality .

❤️ Increases libido: The aphrodisiac properties of ylang ylang are linked to the plant’s ability to increase libido and enhance sexual desire. A study published in BMC Complementary and Alternative Medicine examined the effects of ylang ylang on sexual arousal and found that inhaling ylang ylang oil increased sexual arousal in both men and women. The rich, floral scent can stimulate the release of endorphins, which increase feelings of well-being and arousal.

❤️ Emotional connection: Ylang ylang oil is known to strengthen emotional bonds, making it an ideal ingredient for romantic moments. A study published in the Journal of Ethnopharmacology highlighted the potential anti-anxiety properties of ylang ylang oil. It helps balance emotions, promote self-confidence, and encourage open communication, which strengthens intimacy and improves relationships.

Last piece of advice from Dr. Love is to always have Essential Sensuelle nearby too. Keep it in your pocket, on your nightstand, around your neck or between your breasts as perfume and wherever else it might or might not fit 😉 This is our natural little perfume, which seduces and smells of sensuality in a super delicious sensory symphony, simply 💗

Warm regards,
Queen bee 🐝 in Vossabia